talking about things helps? maybe cause the other person tells u what u wanna hear and thereby u feel good about urself .. most of the time u talk abt sumtin when u feel bad about it or sumtins bugging u .. but then again ppl do go on and on about things that are exciting for them or sumting .. silence is never appreciated these days .. i dont understand why ppl have to shriek at a sight of a shoe or tshirt they like ..
the need to share information is also there, specially if its sumthing thats not nice .. jus hav to pass it on and let others know
so this is how the much needed conversation will go ?
.... : hey are u busy ? i really hav t talk t u abt sumtin
........ the listener : no im not, tell me ..sumtin bothing u ?
..... : yea u know blah blah blah
.......the listener : no its okay to feel that way , but its not ur fault .. blah blah (more things to make u feel great)
......: thanks so much, i feel much better now .. ur great
... the listener : no worries. anything for u
conclusion .. both parties are glad, one helped a friend and feels needed , appreciated , valued
the other feels good , much better .. relieved ..