talking about things helps? maybe cause the other person tells u what u wanna hear and thereby u feel good about urself .. most of the time u talk abt sumtin when u feel bad about it or sumtins bugging u .. but then again ppl do go on and on about things that are exciting for them or sumting .. silence is never appreciated these days .. i dont understand why ppl have to shriek at a sight of a shoe or tshirt they like ..
the need to share information is also there, specially if its sumthing thats not nice .. jus hav to pass it on and let others know
so this is how the much needed conversation will go ?
.... : hey are u busy ? i really hav t talk t u abt sumtin
........ the listener : no im not, tell me ..sumtin bothing u ?
..... : yea u know blah blah blah
.......the listener : no its okay to feel that way , but its not ur fault .. blah blah (more things to make u feel great)
......: thanks so much, i feel much better now .. ur great
... the listener : no worries. anything for u
conclusion .. both parties are glad, one helped a friend and feels needed , appreciated , valued
the other feels good , much better .. relieved ..

note

The note from you , waited for me in my room

white piece of paper , blue ink

laconic , it was

words from you ..written carefully , choosen wisely

something about loving me in silence

stuck on you , I am

bits and pieces of you , put in a box

something about u deep in my soul

something I saw in you , I cant let out of me

hundreds of reasons to dislike you

imperfectly perfect you are

a sad love song u are

together is something we will never be

befuddled I cannot be

existence of you had to be known by me

for my misery

people tend to mind their own business in a wrong way .. sum find out abt others ,ask about others , talk about others ( mostly bad) , spy on others .. rarely do they even bother if they see someone brutally beating a kid , treating their elderly bad .. etc etc .. its not their business to intervene, its not comfortable to have a saying it seems ..
ive never met u but the thought of u haunts me .. i wish i could have helped u .. the little boy who was tortured and shaken to his death about 2 years ago .. it was done in a room of a house, a house filled with people , who were not deaf , who had phones , noone bothered cause it was not their bussiness i assume ..
the man who did it is roaming around freely noone bothers to beat the shit out of him .. people who claim to be pious, in the name of religion wants the non worshippers dead but doesnt seem to care about how people are being mistreated and help their "brother" .. its all fake its all fake .. a small baby was tortured and noone bothered ,, noone heard him cause they were minding their own business