how can one measure the value of life .. cud it be based on how much u can do for others ?

to do things for others u have to be selfish .. selfish to want to get that deep satisfaction of helping another person or making a good difference in their lives .. u do that to feel good about yourself and to give meaning to your life.. the life u wonder about , the life that cud have gone on without u coming into existence from some random 2 persons . jus cause they are ur parents does make them automatically special but cant really prolong the specialness i guess . what if they were not good people ? will u be a bad guy if u didn't like them and what they do ? im sure god does not work that way , i think one will have the right on likes and dislikes, infact whats bad is universally bad , regardless of religion and the etc factors

i guess the roles to play comes in life wether u like it or not .. most people at some point have to face parenting .. the type of parent u become totally depends on the type of person u are

jus cause u get a kid doesn't make u prepared for the job . as always the intention counts , the willingness to do as much as u can counts

i got my mum ( out of the millions of possibilities ) as "my mum " so that i cud appreciate her and wish she didn't go long after she has gone .

so i guess it all ends up in attention , its all about attention

to feel special ,loved ,prettty , hot , happy

but not unwanted attention i guess . u want specific people to give u attention

wud u request for attention ? well sum do i guess .. then it becomes sympathetic or jus for the sake of avoiding headache attention

why wud sumone give u attention ? cause they are interested ..

fact ----> u loose interest in things u have or see all the time

so ur supposed to loose interest at some point in time, if u dont then its a huge prblem

how can sumone be fascinating for long periods of time ? well the hotness factor cud really help i guess

1-ur born

2-u are supposed to do certain things only

3-u hav to face the consequences if not

4-what u dont know can be quite confusing and scary

5-god loves us all and is the most forgiving

6-u cant really use number 5 and get away with it

7-cause god knows ur plans