how can one measure the value of life .. cud it be based on how much u can do for others ?

to do things for others u have to be selfish .. selfish to want to get that deep satisfaction of helping another person or making a good difference in their lives .. u do that to feel good about yourself and to give meaning to your life.. the life u wonder about , the life that cud have gone on without u coming into existence from some random 2 persons . jus cause they are ur parents does make them automatically special but cant really prolong the specialness i guess . what if they were not good people ? will u be a bad guy if u didn't like them and what they do ? im sure god does not work that way , i think one will have the right on likes and dislikes, infact whats bad is universally bad , regardless of religion and the etc factors

i guess the roles to play comes in life wether u like it or not .. most people at some point have to face parenting .. the type of parent u become totally depends on the type of person u are

jus cause u get a kid doesn't make u prepared for the job . as always the intention counts , the willingness to do as much as u can counts

i got my mum ( out of the millions of possibilities ) as "my mum " so that i cud appreciate her and wish she didn't go long after she has gone .

so i guess it all ends up in attention , its all about attention

to feel special ,loved ,prettty , hot , happy

but not unwanted attention i guess . u want specific people to give u attention

wud u request for attention ? well sum do i guess .. then it becomes sympathetic or jus for the sake of avoiding headache attention

why wud sumone give u attention ? cause they are interested ..

fact ----> u loose interest in things u have or see all the time

so ur supposed to loose interest at some point in time, if u dont then its a huge prblem

how can sumone be fascinating for long periods of time ? well the hotness factor cud really help i guess

1-ur born

2-u are supposed to do certain things only

3-u hav to face the consequences if not

4-what u dont know can be quite confusing and scary

5-god loves us all and is the most forgiving

6-u cant really use number 5 and get away with it

7-cause god knows ur plans

There is a very good reason why "judgement day " is called that
Thats the day god judges u for what ever u did
I guess there is no point to appear as a good person , show people how pious you really are by giving unwanted and unasked opinions
i think there is a reason why we were not created as programmed robots and instead given a choice of what ever the heck we wanna do here on this earth .Choosing what u wanna be and the reasons etc etc and the ability to read and understand and try gather knowledge
All the messengers of god already arrived and the holy book is accessible to who ever that wishes
i dont think there is a point of doing good if u have to show to a bunch of people how good u really are

love makes chocolates sell
love makes phone bills massive
love sells motorbikes
love sells plane tickets
love sells holiday packages

is there a way to control another person ? why does the need to control a person comes from love?
why is it so important to make sure that person doesnt talk to sumone that might be a potential threat to u ?
arent things better when they are done only cause that person whats to do it

senario 1

ring ring, hello
ey busy tha, vara bodu kame vegen miulhenee , bala dhevidhaane tha mee kon numbarekan, masha heevanee mufeedhu eba kame kureyhen

scenario 2

keeve phone ah password eh lee ? keevehey eha las veee ...


scenario 3

alhe bune bala aharendheke lobiveytha ?

orgasmatic world

well , things end, things begin , things ruin all cause of orgasms
what is it with humans and orgasms ?
they just need to have it no matter what .. everything cud change from jus one "fine orgasm " ..---> birth of that unplanned kid

marriages happen cause of orgasms ..u know u cud face a "she's pregnant and i have to marry her "
u cud get be well into a divorce cause of orgasms .. " one thing led to another and it happened .. im sorry didnt know what got into me, he was so kind understanding and was there for me " kinda situation
friends can part cause of orgasms .. " he banged my chick "kinda situation
the boss and secretary orgasm ..---> leads u to get fired and ur entire career even cud change cause of one orgasm ..
.

bottom line is we dont give a shit about most thing when it comes to orgasms

----nil----

life is not supposed to be a happy place ......... yet u cud be
happiness -------- > things going the way u want to or sum unexpected thing that makes u happy
we are made to function selfishly .. everything we do is infact for ourselves ,, to get satisfaction .. indeed there arent any selfless good deeds . its how we were made t function
religion --- > do good, obey rules etc etc end product is ---- paradise ..
sadness --- > things going in ways u dont want ..
accepting things u cannot change :) easier said then done eh ?
the mystery element in life sucks in a way but being able t predict whats next wudnt be that interesting either
mystery sucks cause u never know how long happiness lasts
making the best of what we have but what about the people who dont even have a choice ?
u cannot be happy in this world if u open ur eyes and walk
u gotta close it and be involved with what u have .. walk past the people begging for money to feed their babies raised on pavements .. if u cant forget the look on those peoples faces and how much struggle it wud be for them to fight to stay alive , u can never be happy
instead u sud be sad and cry over sumone who just didnt think u were "the one" ..
these are the types of things to be obbsessed with , i guess

its for the best

Mostly whenever something bad happens to you , the most common thing u hear is it all happens for the best .. does it ? how do u know ??
why wud u believe that ?
BEcause then only u can easily get over it and move on .. atleast thats what i think
If we can let go of things we want but never can have then we will be fine .. our energy is mostly wasted on thinking about these kinda shit .. getting over a person blah blah .. wish i cud have lived differently ..then again how can lessons be learned without mistakes ?
havent blogged in ages .. wonder why i am tonight ...